Tuesday, 13 March 2012

Parsi New Year

The 21st of March this year 2012 is a reason to celebrate for more than just one sect of people of India.
Being a day marking the spring equinox – the 21st of March is Jamshed-e-Navroz – the first day of the Zoroastrian year and the beginning of the Iranian Calendar and this day is considered to be Holy even by the Sufis, the Ismailis, the Alawites, the Alevis, and the Bahaiians worldwide and is also the basis for the Jewish festival – ‘Purim’.
Also referred to as the ‘Persian New Year’ and the ‘Parsi New Year’, the ‘Navroz’ festival has been celebrated by the Parsis for about 3000 years. Parsis worship Fire in the Fire Temples and they offer sandalwood sticks to the fire during a special thanksgiving Prayer called the ‘Jashan’. When inside the Temple, Parsis cover their head with caps or sarees until they step out of the Temple which marks the end of the Temple ceremony when they greet each other – ‘Saal Mubarak’!
On Navroz, Parsis offer to their guests – the ‘Falooda’ – a sweet milky beverage with a dominant flavour of rose syrup and other ingredients such as the vermicelli, basil seeds, jelly pieces and topped with ice cream – an Indian version of the original Persian dessert – ‘Faloodeh’.
‘Spring Cleaning’ or the complete cleaning of the house is done by every Parsi household just before the Navroz festival and the house is adorned with auspicious symbols such as stars, birds, fish and butterflies.
And on the day of Navroz, Parsis wear new and best clothes and gold or silver kustis and caps set up a ‘Haft Sin’ Table comprising 7 items symbolizing the seven elements which are of great importance to the Parsis –
o Candles - symbolizing the Fire.
o Mirror – symbolizing the sky.
o Apple – symbolizing the earth.
o Rose Water - symbolizing water.
o Barley sprouts or sabzeh wheat - symbolizing the plants.
o Goldfish - symbolizing the animals.
o Painted eggs symbolizing the humans and fertility.
Parsis also keep dry fruits, honey, milk, sheerbeeranj (sweet) and sugar on the Haft Sin Table.
Besides these, it is customary to even keep on the ‘Haft Sin Table’ the sacred ‘Avesta’ Texts of Zoroastrianism and the ‘Gathas’ – a collection of 17 hymns which were composed by the Founder of Zoroastrianism – the great Prophet Zarathustra – before the 3rd millennium BCE in Greater Iran.
When friends or family visit a Parsi family on Navroz, the Lady of the House plays a pivotal role and leads them to the Haft Sin Table and offers them the eats from the Table.
Navroz evenings are typically spent in fun and frolic and watching the traditional ‘Navroz Naatak’ which are Parsi Plays revolving around the themes of comedy and thrillers. Though not very conspicuous, the Parsi Theatre in India has a strong and ever-growing fanfare. Some of the popular Parsi Plays in India are ‘Keku is my King Kong’; ‘Zabaan Sambhalke’; and ‘Jhan Jhov Tanh Baira’. And Dorab Mehta, Pheroze Antia, Homi Tavadia and Adi Marzban are reckoned with as the greatest Parsi dramatists.
Check the local theatre guides for schedule on Parsi Plays in town and go for it! You would not only get to see some of the most hilarious Parsi Plays ever….you would also see the entire Parsi community converge in the theatre with their friends and family – all decked up and having fun.
But before that, ensure you greet your Parsi friends, neighbours and colleagues – ‘Saal Mubarak’ on the 21st of March.

Monday, 5 March 2012

Just one day for these Women at work …..???


March 8, is celebrated as International Women's Day (IWD) and this has crossed a century of years beginning on March 19 in 1911 in Austria. 

 “Women are half of the world’s population, do two-thirds of the work, get one-tenth of the income, and are the owners of one per cent of the property” is a famous quote from the famed lady Krishna Ahooja-Patel – India.  
The major chunks of women populace in India are just spectators of the speed and technology adding value to the society.  They are not partners of it though they contribute towards every aspect of the growth in all walks of life.  

When the opportunity does not show up to you, look out and snatch it,  is the attitude that every Indian Woman needs today.  Ask, demand and fight for everything that is yours by right.
 I notice so many Women Construction workers go back to do all the domestic chores after a long and tough day at site.  They need the right kind of working gear so that they are protected and are safe.         

I visited many tea plantations  during holidays and always found women employed more in number for obvious reasons.  Women in India are similar to all other women across the Globe, they face the same day to day problems physically, biologically however they lack the comfort zones socially and politically enjoyed by their Global counterparts. The necessary labour laws have to be in place and implemented .


I often visit the local weekly market to purchase vegetables and fruits for the week.  I prefer to shop consumables from the locals than in the branded stores.  I developed excellent rapport with the women who come to sell regularly and the little ones tagging along their moms. Few of us from our colony organised a small play area for all these kiddos to be at by while the moms are busy. We organise some fun activities, share some eatables with them, tell stories or play a movie.  Believe you me, this makes the mothers so happy and they say that all of them look forward to the market day in our area.

 I visited a small town,  famous for the temple of Lord Shani in Mandapalli of east Godavari district. I stayed with a family who offer bed and breakfast to pilgrims visiting the town.  The woman of the house surprised me to no end. Do not think that I am exaggerating when I say that she does gardening, stitching, cooking for the guests and takes tuitions apart from the routine duties of the house hold.  She has an excellent and pleasant disposition despite all this work.  She cooked for us using the vegetables from her garden, provided a typical Andhra style stay and gifted my girls with two scarves beautifully embroidered with their initials.  

All my experiences of travel, be it daily commuting to work, official tours or a holiday with family have been enriched by chance meetings with fine women of quality, strength and will.  I learnt so many things from these women and evolved as an individual and I salute to all of them on this day.


The ‘Nalini by day and Nancy by night’ out sourcing job holding women make me wonder about them.  I know many who prefer to work in the night so that they can care for their families in the day.  Well women, when do you plan to take care of your selves,  is my constant question.  The position, package and the appraisals do not make up for all the quality personal time and health you lose working against the biological clock. I quote Swami Vivekananda, ' Arise! Awake! and stop not till the goal is reached. ' Women of India have  been doubling up to meet the expectations of the society for centuries. And certainly  have the potential to gather the will  to make a difference and add value to their status and lives.  Supportive leadership and consistent motivation will certainly catalyze this movement.

 A promise by every woman of India to take good care of herself coupled with a strong  political will of the Government of India to facilitate the same are required to really ‘Celebrate’ this day. Charity begins at home is my belief and I pledge today to spend one weekend of every month towards this cause of educating     ' these women at work ' by partaking in any relevant activities held at Hyderabad. 














Wednesday, 29 February 2012

March Elephants....March.

Temple Festivals of Kerala epitomize royalty, grandeur and carnivals of India. And one of them is the Guruvayur Utsavam (festival) celebrated at the Guruvayur Sri Krishna Temple in Guruvayur – known as the ‘Dwaraka of the South’- in Kerala starting from 5th of March.

This March, the little town of Guruvayur will bustle with activity as it celebrates the Guruvayur Festivals – Patahadi, Dhwajadi and Ankuradi that last all month. The Temple would be richly decorated by fresh-cut flowers during day and with multi-coloured blinking lights – thousands in a row at night and the streets would be lined with flower and light decorations with spiritual music in Malayalam playing at every nook and corner. Fireworks, decorative arch-ways, bunches of coconuts and plantain trunks which are planted by most doorways is what Guruvayur experiences every March.

Remembered for the elaborate ‘pujas’ in the Guruvayur Sri Krishna Temple and the majestic Elephant parades in which Elephants adorned with ornate golden caparisons (nettipattam) parade along with hundreds of Lord Krishna devotees and the temple priests doing the drum-roll in the festival procession around the temples, the Guruvayur Festivals in March are dedicated to Lord Krishna and are much-awaited by the locals and tourists. During this month the Temple hosts several cultural programs daily. It is a feast to the eyes and the experience takes you to a whole new level of spirituality even if you’re not a Hindu.

Known to have more than 60 captive Elephants which are an integral part of the Temple Pujas & Processions, the Guruvayur Sri Krishna Temple Board has constructed an exclusive, one-of-its-kind Elephant Palace to house these regal beings of which Gajarajan Guruvayur Kesavan is the most popular and celebrated elephant for his devout behaviour. Beside pilgrimage people from all over the country visit Guruvayur Temple during this festival because of the unique Elephant Race (Aanayottam) which marks the commencement of the festival where all the elephants along with their respective mahouts race against one another on the streets of Guruvayur.

Besides partaking in the celebration of the Guruvayur Festival, rheumatic patients also pay homage to the temple’s residing deity – Lord Krishna as it is a strong belief that doing so would relieve them of their suffering and ailments.

Tuesday, 28 February 2012

The summer when we bathed Elephants


When families of three long time friends go on a trip it is a ride with unlimited fun and joy.  That was how one of our trips to Karnataka was.  Summer of 2010 we visited Dubara forest as part of our trip.  We had toured Coorg of Madikeri for two days and left for the Dubara Forest visit around 8 pm on 21 May 2010. We checked in to the already reserved cottages of the Jungle Lodges and Resorts and it was a dark and cloudy night.  We sat outside the cottages sharing horror stories, scaring the kiddos and having a blast of time.  We retired late and woke up early to see the Elephants before it gets hot.
Our cottage was on one bank of the river Cauvery and the Elephant camp on the other. The river was very pleasant, pure and quite.  The trees on the banks of the river were very old and a tree was actually a hybrid of 2 different types and had two kinds of leaves.  We sat under this tree and had our breakfast and after that went on boating to the Elephant camp.

The activities planned spaced across 3 hrs and we did not know how the time went by.  The Elephants were of different sizes and ages and so well trained, behaved and cute. I think Elephant is the only animal that looks cute despite its size.  So to begin with we joined the Naturalist (Trainer) in bathing a couple of Elephants.  He allowed us to oil the trunk, forehead and legs first and asked us to scrub using a tight scrubber.  Children were so excited that they fell all over the place and scrubbed the friendly animals.  When it was time to wash them off, the moment kids started pouring water on them with huge mugs they started showering us in turn using their trunks and it was so much of fun.  We had heard that The Elephants in this camp are well trained and are very human friendly and were pleased to experience more than what we had expected. 
After the bathing came the riding, initially it was scary to get on them but a little help from the Naturalist motivated the kids to go ahead, all this while the trained kept loading us with the daily routine, eating habits and sleeping habits of the Elephants.  It was an informative and enjoyable tour.  
The most interesting part of the day was feeding the Elephants.  Their diet includes porridge made of the flour of Ragi (finger millet).  It is cooked in huge bowls, so huge that I had never seen before. And each time the animal gobbles football sized porridge. We all were allowed to feed it with the instructions of the naturalist.  And it was a great experience to see them eat so much so fast, the tongue of the elephant is so big and thick it felt strange to touch it. And with that the three hour activity of one group was done with and even we were very tired, hungry and ready to leave after all this.